[Olùkọ́ Ọbádélé]

"The couple is the bedrock of the nation. Without it there is
no family, no people. Without couples there can be no family to
procreate and rear confident, untroubled, anchored children. No
viable, community-respecting generation can be born to continue the
process of life, living, building and defending.
Afrikan couples must be whole, individually and as one. They
must be able to trust themselves and each other implicitly. And
that is what makes it imperative that we carefully choose our mates
for Afrikan reasons. We must choose with vision. For we are the
vanguard.
Our unions have purpose far greater than the wants or needs of
either member individually or the couple together. We do not bemoan
this privilege. In fact, it is just the opposite. We are soldiers
in love with forming beautiful families; rearing happy, thinking
children; building strong, lasting communities; raising a mightly
nation and removing all enemies. For Afrikan warrior scholar
complements, there is no other reason for being."

Mwalimu K. Bomani Baruti
Complementarity: Thoughts for Afrikan Warrior Couples